Monday, March 31, 2008

internet dating tips for men- online dating tips for men - internet dating advice for men

While searching the internet for that special women …the women of your dreams… your soul-mate… the other half of yourself, here are a few things to avoid while you are looking.

Some things that will guarantee failure and a broken heart when dating online are totally exceptable or at the very least some what acceptable in the real world.
So when dating online don't be aggressive, demand perfection and never lie even a white lie is taboo.

There is a huge difference between being confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman’s point of view.
Under no circumstances push too hard for a face-to-face with a potential female online date, you will come across as too aggressive…maybe even, scary.

Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience and honesty are the keys to a great online dating experience.

We are all flawed in some way or another, including you, no one is perfect.
If you expect women to be absolutely perfect, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t. If you can't live with the flaws move on and meet someone else.

Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements, make it real with no lies. The truth will come out eventually anyway.

Remember to be yourself, be honest, thoughtful, patient and considerate.
Take your time and get to know your online date, if she is your soul mate be prepared to wait a few weeks before doing a face to face meet. A few weeks is nothing in the scheme of potentially spending your whole life with someone.